WILL “THE SYSTEM” MAKE YOU SOMETHING YOU’RE NOT?
Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen
Success Coach - Doc Love
Hey Doc,
About eight months ago I purchased your instructions because I wasn’t having much
long-term success with women. I listened to the CDs and read The Dating Dictionary and I
must say that it was an illuminating and unique experience. I decided to immediately
implement what you teach and see what would happen out there in the real world.
Doc, your techniques worked liked a charm. They helped me to attract the interest of more
women than I could ever have predicted or hoped for. Frankly, they transformed me from the
loser I was to a guy who was successful in making women go after him.
But here’s my issue. Your principles, it seems to me, instruct men how to change
themselves to be what a woman wants. Well, I did that, got plenty of dates, but it really
wasn’t me. The problem was that I never felt like myself. I always had the sneaking
feeling that I was manipulating the women and “playing games.” It just seemed to
be plain hard work.
Finally I decided to just act naturally, was less of a Challenge, and then met the woman
of my dreams. By many men’s standards, Joan wouldn’t be considered any more than
an 8; maybe less, but to me she’s a 10. And I guess that’s all that counts.
Doc, why do you think I’ve found satisfaction with a woman who is less than a
knockout? Has my perception changed since I stopped trying to be a Challenge? Also, do you
really think that changing who a guy truly is can be the correct strategy for him to find
long-lasting happiness? It seems to me to be a contradiction in terms. Or am I missing
something here?
I’m really curious to hear your take on this, since you are the supreme Doctor of
Love and I can’t argue with your success.
Taylor - who wanted to quit acting like somebody else
Hi Taylor,
You pose an interesting question. And the answer is that yes, I am transforming you into
someone more appealing by making sure that what you are and do is what a woman wants. And
she’s going to want you for you when you’ve absorbed and practiced my rules.
You’re going to be more you than ever, because you’re going to be strong and
secure as Taylor for the first time in your life.
But that’s only half of it. The other half, the one we don’t want to lose sight
of (and which is why you sought out my principles in the first place), is that as you are,
she doesn’t want you for you -- because you’re not good enough!
By your acquisition of a new set of proven techniques, I am making you more masculine. I
am making you more attractive. Nevertheless, Taylor, I started out with nothing but you as
raw material. As my Uncle Jethro Love would say, “I didn’t come in with a new
carburetor and stick it down your throat, did I?” No, I didn’t. No matter what,
when all is said and done, you are still you. A new and improved Taylor, for sure, but
still Taylor.
Now of course you’re going to feel that practicing my techniques “wasn’t
you” because you’ve been doing everything wrong all your life. (By your own
admission, I might add!) It stands to reason that revolutionizing yourself is going to
feel a little odd, at least at first, until you’ve gotten the proper hang of things.
To you Psych majors, any time there’s change, there’s going to be discomfort.
That’s just the way it is – it’s the process of life. And nobody likes
change. We all want to just sit on our butts with the TV remote and watch life roll by
while we munch on our cheese curls and potato chips. But in order to go from being a flop
to a success with women, you have to change yourself and make yourself more desirable, and
“The System” does that.
Taylor, have you ever looked at the cover of Cosmopolitan magazine? Have you ever noticed
that every month there are eight different articles on how a gal can turn a guy’s
head? Or how a woman can get a man to eat out of her hand? For that matter, check out the
covers of all the women’s magazines! Aren’t they full of the same stuff?
Don’t you see what they’re telling women? Don’t you get it?
I hate to break this to you, guy, but in the beginning anything worth doing is “hard
work.” When you first try and play golf, do you have any idea how to properly hold
the club or strike the ball? Of course you don’t! Chances are you don’t even
know which end of the club to hold, right? Ever play a musical instrument? Unless
you’re Mozart, it takes endless hours of practice to get even the rudiments down. And
even prodigies have to practice.
Okay, so you fell in love with Joan, and she’s not Angelina Jolie. Why did you go for
her, you ask? The answer is because you see inner beauty. To quote Sal “The
Fish” Love: “You’re going to live with Attitude!” So, good for you.
You’ve absorbed more of my teachings than you think. Your perception hasn’t
changed, Taylor, since you’ve allegedly stopped trying to be a Challenge. But the
more interesting question is this: what made Joan interested in you in the first place?
What do you think she saw in you? The quaking Wimpus Americanus you used to be, or a
confident guy transformed by me? My book, my rules, have changed you – and the new
you is what she saw.
Regarding your next question, the answer is YES. Of course changing a guy is the formula
for long-lasting happiness! Because you’re going to be PERFECT by the time I get
through with you. What you perceive as a contradiction in terms is nothing but a
half-truth, a fallacy, and an erroneous assumption.
Finally, you say that you wanted to quit acting like somebody else. And do what, Taylor?
Go back to being a loser so your new girlfriend can dump you? My course is about getting
you to put your best foot forward. That’s what you did. You have me to thank for
finding true love.
Remember, guys: without “The System,” you’re just potential.
To send me your love questions or to find out more about The "System," visit me
at http://www.doclove.com or call (800)
404-2644.
Doc Love is a talk show host and entertainment speaker who coaches men in his seminars.
For the past 30 years he has asked thousands of women, "Why do you stay with
one man versus another?"
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